{"id":1097,"date":"2019-02-06T08:07:08","date_gmt":"2019-02-06T13:07:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/liclblog.townoflongisland.us\/?p=1097"},"modified":"2019-02-06T08:09:01","modified_gmt":"2019-02-06T13:09:01","slug":"symbols-of-love-and-19th-century-gentility-fans-valentines-and-heirlooms-from-the-angell-arnold-and-dyer-family-of-rhode-island","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/liclblog.townoflongisland.us\/?p=1097","title":{"rendered":"Symbols of love and 19th century gentility: Fans, valentines, and heirlooms from the Angell, Arnold and Dyer family of Rhode Island"},"content":{"rendered":"

(from the collections of Meredith Dyer Sweet)<\/span><\/p>\n

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\nJust in time for Valentine\u2019s Day, and during the time of year when we can use some extra beauty and grace in our lives, we present to you an exhibit of fans from the collections of Meredith Sweet, as well as some family valentines and items that were used by the genteel citizens of Rhode Island, such as calling cards. <\/span><\/p>\n

Fans were used as early as 4000 years ago in ancient Egypt, and Chinese ladies used fans 3000 years ago. In the 17th century China was exporting fans to Europe, where the fans served many purposes, including offering \u201cfan flirtation rules,\u201d as a way of coping with the restricting social etiquette. For example, resting the fan on the right cheek meant \u201cyes,\u201d and resting it on the left cheek meant \u201cno.\u201d The fans in this collection are made of silk, cloth, and paper, and some have ivory handles and tassels. One fan is made in Japan, and another is an 1893 calendar fan. Floral designs can be seen, as well as an elegant black and gold fan. <\/span><\/p>\n

The valentines range from 19th century to early 20th century, including valentine postcards and moveable valentines. Family valentines are represented (Meredith and her brother Jerry sent cards, and there is a card \u201csent to Arthur by Aunt Emily when he was a little boy\u201d), as well as valentines sent between friends (Meredith exchanged valentines with Long Island\u2019s Gail Wood). One charming valentine contains this verse: \u201cHustle! Mr. Bachelor get yourself a wife, there\u2019s nothing in this world thus half so sweet, you\u2019re wasting half your life.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Finally, in the exhibit can be seen a pair of delicate black hand mitts, which allowed a woman to do handwork, as well as show off flashy rings. A calling card which belonged to \u201cMrs. William O. Dyer\u201d is clasped in a metal hand clip \u2013 another way to showcase how polite society handled visitors in the 19th century.<\/span><\/p>\n

For more information on the history and language of fans, see:<\/span>
\nhttp:\/\/www.angelpig.net\/victorian\/fanlanguage.html<\/span><\/a>
\nAnd valentines at the Maine Historical Society:<\/span>
\nhttps:\/\/www.mainememory.net\/sitebuilder\/site\/229\/page\/488\/display?use_mmn=1<\/span><\/a>
\nCalling card etiquette can be found here:<\/span>
\nhttps:\/\/hobancards.com\/calling-cards-and-visiting-cards-brief-history<\/span><\/a>
\nSignificance of gloves:<\/span>
\nhttp:\/\/www.fashionintime.org\/history-gloves-significance\/<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Long Island Community Library<\/span><\/strong>
\nThe exhibit is open during library hours<\/span><\/strong>
\nin the small meeting room glass case<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

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